Comments on: My Top 3 Life Lessons Learned In 2011

By: jas

jas — Tue, 17 Jul 2012 17:35:33 +0000

In reply to Rich. moving and something personal

By: Bruce Muzik

Bruce Muzik — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 10:14:01 +0000

In reply to Stella.

Believe it or not Stella, us men are actually human! Fortunately we’re able to fall in love too 😉

…and thanks for the compliment.

By: Jay

Jay — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 04:27:09 +0000

In reply to Bruce Muzik. Thanks for clarifying Bruce. I would be happy to share what I read into what you wrote if that is of any help to you, just send me a mail. At the same time, I would also like acknowledge the work you do to investigate, understand and create authenticity. I have come across your work on a number of occasions and am grateful for the impact you have made in empowering people to live authentically

By: Christa Herzog

Christa Herzog — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 19:26:38 +0000

You write here about situations, which are very difficult, but make important changes. 1) When you get yourself cross your present border, you grow. There are different kinds of fear that hold people back. 2) To feel something is wrong, but not act on that feeling… You are focused on something and don’t think that your bad feeling could lead to some harm. 3) It happens that you believe to have fallen in love and it doesn’t take long that you know that something is wrong and then it takes time to put an end to that wrong relationship.
We all have to focus on our inner voice and do what it is telling us.

By: Cindy

Cindy — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 08:48:08 +0000

I think you rock! 🙂 last year i learned that no matter what goes wrong, or who thinks what – loving someone really is an amazing gift and when you find the one you love, you fight for them even if that sometimes means fighting with them.

The storms are never great but most of the time good comes from them and the growth as a result of them is just amazing. In many ways having those fights is facing my fear and having good things happen as a result (your #1)

Your #3 is spot on too. It seems I had at least the odd similar learning curves as you did last year – what I didn’t get was the realization that I’d actually learned something from them – so similar experiences but didn’t quite see the value as clearly as you put them. Somehow you putting them in words cemented them for me. Thank you.

By: Stella

Stella — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 08:42:14 +0000

Hi Bruce,

It is hard for me to believe that a sexy and successful man like you is able to be truely in love with a woman (one woman only)!!!

I’m glad to see you in love and ready to fight for it; encouraging others to believe in love again.

Thanks for your life lessons and Good Luck!

By: Bruce Muzik

Bruce Muzik — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 07:59:29 +0000

In reply to Jay.

Hey Jay,

Valid comments.

Not bagging anyone. It’s not my wife’s fault that the journalist wrote an article that was as dramatic as an afternoon soap opera. The point of life lesson #2 was exactly what I wrote above – I learned that not trusting my gut costs me. My gut had told me the journalist was full of it and I did not listen. Was that not clear from what I wrote? If not, let me know how, so I can correct it.

With regard to Life Lesson #3, there were 4 distinct life lessons that I pointed out at the end of that section – the most powerful being “Anything that is not love is just a misunderstanding”. The story about my relationship is secondary and was shared to illustrate the power of finding the misunderstanding behind a conflict – how doing that can bring love back to any relationship in upset.

Again, if I can make that clearer, I’d appreciate your help.

Thanks

Bruce

By: Lee

Lee — Sun, 08 Jan 2012 02:05:15 +0000

Just now, I’ve been dreading one of my biggest fears the fear of what the future holds for me…you see, I’ve just been reassigned to another station in my work and although I know that there are many opportunities waiting for me where I am going, I am scared of what might happen, the ‘what if’s’ come to my mind. So reading your thoughts about your experience when you faced your fear is gradually helping me be grateful instead of being scared. Now, I’m trying to see the present and being thankful for all the blessings that I have now, that is manifesting now, not fearing what is to come. Thank you Bruce! I really am truly grateful!

By: barbara

barbara — Sat, 07 Jan 2012 12:25:02 +0000

Bruce I am so glad that I met you on that champagne day, in Blouberg at Petit Fours , just after your breakup with your girlfriend. I love your work and the way you are spontaneous and from the heart. Every time I read your articles I move forward in my thinking.
love on,
Barbara

By: Sovra

Sovra — Sat, 07 Jan 2012 09:30:05 +0000

In reply to Rich. Nice and personal, very good lessons...enjoyed the article..especially the one about relationships.. and the gut thing..in fact it all applies to my 2011. Thanks. x