Comments on: It’s Not Your Fault. It’s Your System. https://www.staging.brucemuzik.com/blog/your-system-sucks/ Relationship Expert and Keynote Speaker Wed, 10 Aug 2016 16:58:55 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.1 By: Jason R. Ayers https://www.staging.brucemuzik.com/blog/your-system-sucks/#comment-1642 Thu, 20 Jan 2011 12:08:47 +0000 http://www.designer-life.com/blog/?p=969#comment-1642 Wonderful advice Bruce… and the great news is that it’s usually a lot faster to fix a flaw in the system than to try to change some aspect of our personality. I think part of this comes from being harder on ourselves than we are on other people as well…

]]> By: Christa https://www.staging.brucemuzik.com/blog/your-system-sucks/#comment-1641 Tue, 18 Jan 2011 22:11:25 +0000 http://www.designer-life.com/blog/?p=969#comment-1641 Too many people get too quickly frustrated, just because something doesn’t workout immediately and they give up too fast, instead of questioning the underlying system that might be false.

]]> By: Ewan https://www.staging.brucemuzik.com/blog/your-system-sucks/#comment-1640 Mon, 17 Jan 2011 01:05:29 +0000 http://www.designer-life.com/blog/?p=969#comment-1640 such an attention grabbing title to a blog post and what an system-solution! Who could have foreseen the perils of traversing time zones and scheduling skype calls?

]]> By: fortune albert https://www.staging.brucemuzik.com/blog/your-system-sucks/#comment-1639 Thu, 13 Jan 2011 22:20:01 +0000 http://www.designer-life.com/blog/?p=969#comment-1639 I am so grateful to you Bruce for this solution you’ve offered me,cause it came to me when I needed it most.Thank you so much.

]]> By: Kimberly Johnson https://www.staging.brucemuzik.com/blog/your-system-sucks/#comment-1638 Wed, 12 Jan 2011 22:32:10 +0000 http://www.designer-life.com/blog/?p=969#comment-1638 Awesome Bruce. I loved the dialogue and am definitely systems challenged but on the way to changing that.

]]> By: Gabriele https://www.staging.brucemuzik.com/blog/your-system-sucks/#comment-1637 Wed, 12 Jan 2011 19:37:41 +0000 http://www.designer-life.com/blog/?p=969#comment-1637 Hallo Bruce,
Wonderful advice. Will remember that next time I am angry at myself.
Take care and be well.

]]> By: sonyamacdesigns https://www.staging.brucemuzik.com/blog/your-system-sucks/#comment-1635 Wed, 12 Jan 2011 16:16:27 +0000 http://www.designer-life.com/blog/?p=969#comment-1635 Thanks Bruce … some awesome must have information for creative collaboration across time zones.

]]> By: Simon Smith https://www.staging.brucemuzik.com/blog/your-system-sucks/#comment-1634 Tue, 11 Jan 2011 22:28:41 +0000 http://www.designer-life.com/blog/?p=969#comment-1634 Well put, I heartily agree with the sentiment; people don’t fail, systems do. When I keep that in focus it stops me going into crisis mode and panic and allows me to calmly move towards the solution (well that’s the theory anyway!!)
thanks for more great insights
simon smith

]]> By: Christian https://www.staging.brucemuzik.com/blog/your-system-sucks/#comment-1633 Tue, 11 Jan 2011 20:17:00 +0000 http://www.designer-life.com/blog/?p=969#comment-1633 Thanks Bruce,

Perfect timing

]]> By: Robert Audet https://www.staging.brucemuzik.com/blog/your-system-sucks/#comment-1632 Tue, 11 Jan 2011 17:30:16 +0000 http://www.designer-life.com/blog/?p=969#comment-1632 Bruce,
This is the gem of the day for me – perhaps the gem of a lifetime. After a difficult morning with my life partner, feeling particularly defective myself, I realized that the more defective I feel, the less I am available to him. I “get,” in a deeper way, that the who and how I am are a gift and that I am responsible for fostering and sharing this gift and uniqueness with the world. The folly I have lived with is trying to fit into the norm, to be the way others want me to be. Wow – no wonder I have felt so stuck, especially in relationship!

Systems – this is the best gift I can give myself and my clients as I start my new coaching business. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this gift. I have a more positive perspective on my relationship, myself and my business.

Peace, joy and love to you!
Robert

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